Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not?

Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not.

I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Master Levi and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic is all about cooperation and teamwork (“teamwork makes the dream work” is an often recited mantra in our home) and so punishment is often regarded as not necessary. I have my rules and I do my utmost not to break them, and when they are broken, there is usually a good reason for it. When that happens, there are no punishments, just talking and problem-solving. Part of my submission to my Sir is transparent communication, always. To him, punishment would make me fearful, and fear will only impede his objectives with me.

With that being said, Master and I are a loved up sadomasochistic pairing who take great delight in shooting at one another with Nerf guns or firing elastic bands at one another. We bite one another (sometimes quite hard), we tickle one another and we spank one another as we walk past; it’s all just a part of what we do. If you don’t bend at the knee when you bend over in this house then that’s just an ass begging to be spanked, hard – unless you’re vanilla, of course, or unless you’re family!

In our scenes, Master and I thoroughly enjoy impact play. Master has a deft hand when it comes to floggers and I for one thoroughly appreciate his efforts. Massage is good for stress relief, admittedly, but a good, sensual, rhythmic flogging is ooh so much better.

That’s it from me for this post. Do you have punishments in your submission? Share your thoughts in the comments or read more of my 30 Days of Submission posts!

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Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

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