We don’t bite! Hard.

Every now and then, it occurs to me that I have a terrible habit of creating things, mentioning them once or twice, and then assuming everyone has developed psychic abilities.

So in case you missed it… Ten Shades & Me has a Discord server!

You don’t need to be a paid supporter, a long-time reader, a BDSM expert or someone who can recite my entire blog history from memory to join us. You just need to be an adult, (reasonably!) capable of behaving yourself, and interested in hanging out with other people who enjoy talking about kink, relationships, sex toys and whatever other nonsense we inevitably talk about!

Want to talk about something I posted?

Come on in.

Want to discuss kink with people who aren’t going to stare at you like you’ve just confessed to sacrificing goats under a full moon?

Come on in.

Want to talk about sex toys, relationships, pets, hobbies or the increasingly bizarre events of everyday life?

Come on in!

It’s Also a Much Better Place to Find Me

This is probably worth mentioning because sometimes I exist in several different places at once.

If we’ve bumped into each other somewhere else and you’d like to stay in touch, Discord is one of the easiest places to find me. Even if I’m not at my desk, I’ve usually got my phone with me.

Maybe Slowly is too slow for you? Come say hello on Discord!

Seen me elsewhere and want to come say hello? Here I am!

So consider this your periodic reminder that the Ten Shades & Me Discord server exists, you’re welcome to join us, and we don’t bite.

Well, not unless you ask us nicely 😉

See you on the other side!

Love,