Ten Shades & Me

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Our Sex Room Essentials

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Are you looking to liven up your love life but aren’t sure where to begin? Relax! Here are our sex room essentials that we use in our bedroom – a sexy starter pack from Ten Shades & Me! 

Of course any lubricant is good, but we were sent our bottle of Pjur Woman Nude for review and we’ve used it ever since! A little goes a long way and I’ve had absolutely no issues with yeast infections, thanks to this wonderfully silky, designed-for-women, glycerin-free formula.  

Our bed is not just ai bed, oh no – is a bed with a bondage system attached! The straps lie between the box frame and the mattress, so we can flip the straps up and tie one another to the bed at a moment’s notice! Do you want a fun, secure bondage system that you can easily hide under your bedding? Then you know what to do. 

I love the adorable metallic hearts on this set – it makes me think of all of the mischief of Ms Harley Quinn! Fur lined with comfortable cuffs and an adjustable strap, this gorgeous set is both comfortable and stylish. – perfect for spicing up date night! 

What would play time be without an orgasm or three? With this rechargeable mini wand, we have all of the flexibility of playtime – without any of the wires of a plug-in magic wand! Whether you use it for massage or for casting spells on your lover’s crotch, you need a wand in your basket! 

All good things must come to an end, and when it does, we love this gentle foaming body and toy cleanser. Apply a little to your toy (or person), wipe down with a soft microfiber cloth, and you’re done. Sure some bigger messes might still need a wash or shower afterwards, but for the small and immediate messes, this foaming cleanser can leave you plenty fresh for those post-coital cuddles – or round two, if you prefer! 

And for the adventurous…

Curious about the road less travelled? Let us introduce you to these colourful butt plugs. Made from super-smooth silicone, they slide in easily with a flexible T-bar for a plug that is both exciting and comfortable to wear. Graded sizing also means you can gently stretch your muscles, ready for your next step in your anal adventures.

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