
Hello and welcome to Ten Shades & Me!
This website was set up by a married kinky disabled lady, with other kinky disabled (and able-bodied!) people in mind. Be you new or experienced, this site was set up to be a fun and informative place for all and any who are interested in the BDSM lifestyle.
With more than twenty years of experience as both a Dominant and a submissive, I aim to provide you with easy-to-read information that is presented on my blog in a friendly fashion and is sensitive to your needs. I understand how daunting it is to take your first steps into the kink lifestyle and I want to offer you a guiding hand to hold, every step of the way. Furthermore, I have proudly appeared on Get Me Giddy and Gawker using my knowledge to make a positive and impactful representation of the kink & BDSM community.
Curious about kinks? Take a read of my What’s Your Kink? posts, where you can read everything about some of the most popular kinks. Read my 30 Days of Submission or 30 Days of Kink writing challenge answers, or browse my sex toy or sex position reviews. Wondering about Life in 24/7 BDSM, or conbining disablities and BDSM? We’ve got you.
So now that I’ve introduced myself, where will your next step be? Spoilt for choice? Why not check out My Mission, read About Me or just browse some of my latest posts instead?
Enjoy your visit!


