Are you new to BDSM? Curious about getting started in our devilish ways? Firstly, welcome! We put this guide together to give you a basic guide to BDSM, from what BDSM is, to how to stay safe and how to make your relationship the best that it can be.
My husband, Master Levi, and myself have been a Dominant & submissive pairing for almost twenty years. Both in our thirties, we aim to teach in a way that is fun, energetic and appeals to an audience of all ages and without missing out any of the core details. We put this free workshop together to share and to teach some of the core tenets that we believe lead to a happy, healthy, long-lasting relationship. This information was always free to us, and so we believe that it should be free to you, too.
So, what are you waiting for? Why not get started below?
● Do I Have Your Consent? Obtaining Consent In BDSM
● Ten Kinky Abbreviations You Need To Know
● A Little Look At Labels & Titles
● Rules & Contracts – What’s Right For You?
● Some Do’s & Don’ts Of Domination
● Stop! You Still Need A Safeword
● What To Hit (And How To Hit It)
Looking to bedroom inspiration? Visit our Magnolia Room Of Sensation here!
Ten Shades & Me is currently self-funded to keep it accessible and paywall-free. If you’ve found value here, your support will help us keep going. Thank you.

