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I often recommend Obedience (and it’s sister journal app, Embrace) on my blog, but until recently, that partnership hasn’t been there. Now, we’re proudly partnered with the Obedience app to help you make your BDSM relatonship the best that it can possibly be!
What Is Obedience?
The Obedience app is a habit-tracking and accountability tool designed to help kinky people who enjoy structure, discipline, and goal-focused routines within their BDSM relationships. It allows Dominants to create custom tasks, rules, and daily expectations for their submissives, then track completion over time through streaks, statistics, and progress reports. Many people use it individually for productivity, self-improvement, or personal development (yes, you can do that too!), while others incorporate it into recognised power-exchange or D/s dynamics as a way to formalise agreements and deepen their relationships.
While Obedience offers a simple, free version, the Preium version offers bonus features like unlimited (instead of five) habits, photo proof (for those subs who like to pretend they did as they were told!), discreet mode and more. Ideal for those whose privacy isn’t guaranteed!
And that’s not all! Obedience allows you to add multiple Dominants and submissives, and has an option for Switches too. In a Household? Obedience can cater for you! You can also integrate Embrace with Obedience and reward your submissive for journalling regularly.
Whether used solo or collaboratively, the goal is the same: consistent action, measurable progress, and healthy, happy bond.
How Do Rewards & Punishments Work?
Rewards and punishments don’t have to be gaining or losing points, that’s a preset. A Dominant (or submissive) can add their own rewards/punishments ideas, and each habit can be custom set to earn its own reward if completed, or punishment if not. For example, a submissive could earn a small bar of chocolate (rather than points) for eating five portions of fruit or vegetables in a day, or ten strokes of a hairbrush to their bottom if they fail. You can absolutely set up the system with whatever rewards and punishments you both like.
How Much Does Obedience Cost?
Obedience costs £6.99/$6.99 per month, but you can save more than 50% with the annual plan at £29.99/$29.99 per year. Plus, you can enjoy an extra 20% off the annual plan with my affiliated link below, so you’ll be paying £24/$24 per year, or just £2/$2 per month! Do be aware that each person in the relationship will need their own Premium account in order to use all of the features.
Are you ready to deepen your dynamic? Click the button below and start your journey today!
