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NB. The language in the book is oriented towards heterosexual couples. However, to make these sex positions enjoyable for all, I will be using gender-neutral language in the appropriate sections below.
Hello Lovelies and welcome to our next sex position review!
Not so long ago, Master Levi and I purchased a book of sex positions from Lovehoney. Ihe idea was two-fold: to give us some new hot sex positions to try, but also to give me something to write about and share on my blog. As a disabled person, some sex positions can be tricker than others. So we wanted to share with you which sex positions rocked our world, and which ones were dropped from it!
So without further ado, let’s check out the next position – Backwards Cowgirl!
Why This Position:
This one is all about the curves and the angles. The backwards cowgirl position allows for deep and stimulatng penetration whilst working with the natural cuve of the penis. Sure, it lacks lusty gazes, but it allows you both to get on one another’s nerves in all the best possible ways!
Assume The Position:
The penetrating partner sits back or lies down and the receiving partner straddles their, facing away from them. The receiving partner then lowers themselves onto the penetrating partner, allowing them to penetrate their bottom or vagina, according to preference. The recieiving partner can then bump and grind for their mutual pleasure, with some assistance from the penetrating partner if desired.
His Perspective
Alright, so I didn’t get to look into Elena’s powder blue eyes for this position, but I did get to enjoy the sight of her butt bouncing up and down on my cock and that’s kind of the next best thing! We were both a bit unsure about this one, but we’ve both been enjoying some sex on the sofa lately and it seemed like the perfect time.
Oh my goodness did my dear lady get into it!
Elena kept telling me that she felt “bad”, but “in the good kind of way”, which I take to be a good thing. I placed my hands on her hips to help her rise and fall on my hard shaft, which she seemed to like too. She opted to try grinding for a while, which nearly broke us both. Sweet Lord, having my little lady around my member and throwing it back against me while we watching TV was nigh my undoing. Don’t ask me what the show was, my mind was elsewhere!
We’re doing this again for sure – often.
Her Perspective
A little sidestory here: When I was younger, I remember my Mum picking me up a pamphlet about the birds and the bees, and I remember it kind of suggesting at sex whereby the teen girl sat on the teen boys lap, facing away from him, and I remember wondering how on earth they would have sex in that position because nothing seemed to line up. Well, suffice to say I now know how it all lines up, and boy oh boy what a treat!
I have no idea what we were watching, I couldn’t focus on it much anyway!
I can’t really say too much, except you need to do this position… like yesterday! Master hit every damn wall and nerve, to the point I had to hold him and keep him still because I feared if he moved, I might cum again! Depth, angles, curves… this position is the complete package to my sexual bliss!
When I wasn’t riding him like I was trying to break him, Master was able to wrap his hands around me and knead my boobs a bit. I’m not sure if that helped or hindered us though because we both enjoyed this position way too much for it to last too long.
Alright, so you sort of lack the intimacy component, but you know what? Right here we weren’t really worried about that! This was a filthy fuck in front of the TV, and we were all about it!
Overall Verdict
This is another position that’s not for those times when you want something cute and intimate, but if you want something fun and nasty that’s going to leave you both satisfied? You need backwards cowgirl! Six out of five, twelve out of ten – we loved it!
Special Considerations
A few things to consider with this position: first of all, maybe sit on the edge of the bed or a chair and have the receiving partner keep their feet on the floor if they have bad knees, also, be sure to support your partner and help them rise and fall if they are prone to losing their balance. Take your time and enjoy every sensation, there’s no need to rush just because that’s how the pros do it!
That’s it from me for this post, Did you try the Backwards Cowgirl position? Leave a comment below or read more sex position reviews!
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Until next time.
Stay safe & have fun,
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