The Submissive Diaries - Ten Shades & Me

Ten Shades & Me

Thoughts, memories and observations from both in and out of the bedroom. Enjoy my submissive diaries.

The Submissive Diaries: Rules Of EngagementMay 30, 2026
Love, logistics, and the day Amazon nearly started a diplomatic incident. Elena reflects on life and kink ib this D/s diary post.
The Submissive Diaries: Strategic NoncomplianceMay 28, 2026
Some rules are made to be broken. In this diary entry Elena talks reservations in relationships, strategic noncompliance, and charting her own future.
The Submissive Diaries: Obedience By ProxyMay 26, 2026
What when doing the wrong thing is doing the right thing? Elena writes about proxy obedience, bratting, and flirtatious miitary banter with Domkind.
The Submissive Diaries: Dominance By ProxyMay 23, 2026
Real power requires real presence. In this post, Elena write about proxy power dynamics and flirty online battles of will. The arena has just got wider.
The Submissive Diaries: A Queen RisesMay 21, 2026
In a whirlwind of relationships both near and far, a queen remembers who holds the power. Elena reflects on blogging, and falling in love again.

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