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Have you mastered this position yet?

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Rating: 2 out of 5.

NB. The language in the book is oriented towards heterosexual couples. However, to make these sex positions enjoyable for all, I will be using gender-neutral language in the appropriate sections below. 

Hello Lovelies and welcome to our next sex position review! 

So without further ado, let’s check out the next position – Thigh Master!

Why This Position: 

Thigh Master allows the receiving partner to grind against the giving partner’s thigh for maximum stimulation. Combining penetration with stimulation and free hands for plenty of cuddles and caresses, you’re sure to reach orgasmic success!

Assume The Position:

The giving partner sits or lies with their chosen leg slightly bent, and the receiving partner climbs on top, with the giving partner’s raised leg between theirs, making contact with their clitoris or penis. The giving partner then penetrates the receiving partner, and the receiving partner can grind and ride for mutual pleasure. Having your hands free means that both partners are free to touch and caress however you want to, and you can even lean back over your shoulder for a smooch!

A simple grayscale hand drawn line drawing of two figures engaging in the Thigh Master sex position.

His Perspective

Not gonna lie, at first this went wrong, fast. The angle of the dangle didn’t work how it was supposed to initially, meaning that my shaft felt like it was being ripped off sideways when I entered Helen – really not a pleasant feeling! With that said, I did like having her grind my thigh, and it was a massive turn on just watching her do that. I didn’t really care about the sex part at that point – gimme my old fella back and let me enjoy the show. You just keep doing your thing…  

One other thing that i feel I must mention, that I was okay with but might not be for everyone: make sure you’re comfortable with having your partner’s boy fluids on your thigh. Things are going to get wet and wild with this position, and you might end up wet where you’ve never been wet before!

Her Perspective

Again, there’s a lot to unpack here. I’m with Matt: the sex part didn’t really work, and grinding Matt’s thigh probably wasn’t going to get me off (sorry, love!) because he has really hairy thighs, but somehow? This was hot! And it felt like, if I just kept it up, you know, I might have actually come!

Strategically, it’s not the easiest position to master – there’s grinding and riding, two things to remember while you’re trying to enjoy the pleasure! I found rotating my hips the most beneficial, but even then Matt had to tell me to be careful a few times because I was slightly too enthusiastic – whoops! 

I did find, though, that grinding Matt’s thigh was generally hot: It was debasing in a way that I’ve never been debased before, and ultimately, I was happy to, err, “keep up the show” while my husband enjoyed himself. If that’s what he wants me to do, who am I to deny him?!

Having Matt’s hands free (at least initially!) as well was incredibly hot for me, and he loves holding my body while I grind him and sitting up to hold my breasts. He’s very complimentary and kept telling me how hot I am like this – I think we’ve found something else my husband likes!

Overall Verdict

As a sex position, this wasn’t really working for us. but as a kind of humiliation/foreplay performance? It was hot! We’re rating this as a sex position though, and it really wasn’t working for us, and was even painful for Matt at a few points. For that reason, it gets ⅖. 

Special Considerations

Again. this position requires a certain level of stamina and stability, along with the need to be able to weight on your hips and knees. You might enjoy it if you can manage it, but it might not be for everyone. It’s one of the more adventurous positions in this book, and we’re not entirely sure that the juice is worth the squeeze. Enjoy it if you can manage it, but don’t stress yourself about it if not.

Until next time.

Stay safe & have fun,

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