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Life In 24/7 BDSM: Chapter Five – Submission & Feminism

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September 22, 2022October 20, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 3 Comments

Combining modern and traditional values is sometimes much simpler than it sounds.

Life In 24/7 BDSM: Chapter Three – Appearance & Uniforms

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July 20, 2022October 20, 2023 ~ Helen ~ Leave a comment

For this instalment of Married to Master let's take a look at appearance and uniforms.

Life In 24/7 BDSM: Chapter Two – Rules & Protocol

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July 3, 2022October 20, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

ter two in my co-authored series will fellow kink blogger, Penny Berry.

30 Days Of Submission: Day 25 – Rituals Of Submission

April 22, 2022November 10, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

It's not just about who you are, it's also about what you do.

Life In 24/7 BDSM: Chapter Nine – Dominant Spotlight Interview

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January 30, 2022October 20, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 1 Comment

Meet my husband & Dominant, Matt.

Life In 24/7 BDSM – Chapter Seven: A Look At Language

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November 21, 2021October 20, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 1 Comment

Every couple creates their own words for things, even the kinky ones.

30 Days Of Submission: Day 20 – Fluctuating Submission

October 22, 2021March 27, 2023 ~ Helen ~ Leave a comment

Submission can be fluid, here's a look at how mine has evolved and fluctuated over time.

Setting Expectations In Your BDSM Relationship

March 17, 2021October 17, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 1 Comment

What do you expect from your kinky partner?

30 Days Of Submission: Day 14 – Religious Conflict

March 14, 2021March 27, 2023 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? This is an interesting question, because I think, at least in principle, religion has a lot to do with the foundations of … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 14 – Religious Conflict

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