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It used to be that I kept a catalogue of posts like my “The Submissive Diaries” posts: actual snippets of my real life and world as a 24/7 BDSM submissive. Not just the kinky bits, but all of it: playful exchanges with the men in my life, real life goings on, thoughts on kink, submission and acquisition and more. Even real fantasies, masturbation and sex. 

Unfortunately, whilst those posts were seemingly well enjoyed (I wonder why!) by my audience, they were absolutely chaotic for my SEO — Google just didn’t seem to know what my blog was all about! 

So that left me with one option: I had to move them away from Ten Shades & Me. 

I contemplated making them a premium thing with paid memberships, but that didn’t really work — I felt like I was promising far more than I could give. Some weeks are drier than others, sex and kink wise. I didn’t want to be charging for snippets of something I couldn’t give. 

So then I got rid of my memberships, but I kept my diary on Ko-fi with a tip button. Still off of the main blog, but accessible for free. 

I added a “read my diary” button to my home page, but I know not everyone sees that. Maybe posting a post about it would help? 

So if you want to catch up with me — including the tiramisu birthday cake I made that my mother is still talking about three weeks after her birthday party — be sure to check out my diary. It might not always be kinky, but I guarantee it’s nearly always fun. 

And if you want to support my blog in a way that helps you too, be sure to use my discount code — AFF-10SHADES20 — at checkout when you shop on Lovehoney UK or Lovehoney.com. You save a groovy 20%, and Lovehoney pays me a slice for recommending them to you. That’s pretty groovy, huh?  

Until next time, Lovelies.