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30 Days of Kink: Day 7 – My Favourite Toy

What’s your favourite toy?

Hmm hmm, decisions. You know there are many, and each really is a matter of what I feel like or what’s going on at the time. Still, let’s go through three:

For BDSM play, My Favourite Toy Is…

A Bondague Boutique Slim Riding Crop on a bed of silk red roses

There is something about a riding crop that just screams “obey me”. They can be used to stroke and caress in a way that tantalises and teases, or flicked to elicit the most delightful gasps and whimpers. They take a little bit of getting used to, sure, but once you’re used to them? They are most fun. The taste of the leather bulb too, for a submissive, is most heady.

For Insertables, My Favourite Toy Is…

Lovehoney smooth clear glass dildo on a bed of silk red roses

With a generous 8″ smooth insertable length, this glass dildo is is a delight everytime. Chilled in a bowl of iced water for something that feels almost clinical and sinister, or warm water for a more sensual treat. Alternatively, combined with a rechargeable wand for something truly intense and special! I don’t like anything too textured, but something smooth that just slides right into me? It feels almost forbidden!

And For Those Solo Moments? My Favourite Toy Is…

Dr Joen Kaplan flickering tongue vibrator on a bed of red silk roses

I love oral sex as much as the next person, but oral sex typically requires another willing participant. Where none is available, this vibrator gets to the spots that need to be licked everytime. Not for the faint at heart, but definitely for those who want a good tonguing to paradise!

Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

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