Don’t let a busy schedule get between you and your kinky fun.
Hey lovelies and welcome to this exciting downloadable!
A little while ago now, Master Levi and I kept hitting a roadblock with our BDSM relationship: it wasn’t that we didn’t want to play together, it was that by the time Master got home from work, a BDSM session felt like effort. Before we could play, we had to decide what we were doing: what to wear, what toys to have out, what to do, and when did we begin? By the time we’d eaten dinner, exercised the dog and washed up, flopping on the sofa felt like the easier option.
It wasn’t that we didn’t want to play together, it was that we didn’t want to have to do those pesky scene negotiations before having the actual scene. I mean, that’s precious time we could be playing in!
So that was when I came up with a plan: what if we had a simple sheet that Master could fill out and leave out on our Kinky Fuckery Thursdays, then I could get everything ready for him instead? That way, by the time he gets home from work, he won’t need to worry about what he wants or how – everything will already be laid out, according to his instructions!
I know that some people already do similar things by text or call, but if you’ve ever struggled with how to sound like a Dom outside of a scene, this might be a solution for you. Behold, the BDSM Session Planning Worksheet!

The idea is quite simple: the Dominant simply fills out what they want to use in the session – along with their pre-session instructions – and the submissive follows them. You could use it as a PDF to complete at a convenient time in the day and send it to your submissive ahead of your session, or print it out, fill it in and leave it for them to find, if you prefer. Hopefully by now you’ve already completed a BDSM checklist together and so you’ll have some idea of what one another likes, but if not, please start there first.
In the featured image in this post, you can see a sneaky peek of our own BDSM Session Planning Worksheet. I know, I know, it was kind of naughty of me to give you a little sample and not the whole sheet, but I have to keep some of the good stuff back, you know?
But here’s the deal:
For a teeny £2.50 ($3.33) you can download and view our BDSM Session Planning Worksheet in full, and you’ll have access to a template that I have built to help you plan your BDSM sessions. No more fumbling with your words, just fill it out and look forward to the night ahead!
Are you ready? Purchase the zipped file below (you’ll be redirected to the download) and enjoy!
BDSM Session Planning Bundle
(£2.50/$3.33)
That’s it from me for this post. How do you plan your BDSM sessions, if you do? Leave a comment below or read more of my kink & BDSM posts!
Until next time.
Stay safe & have fun,

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations, you’re now emotionally invested. Go ahead and worship me properly. My writing chocolate won’t buy itself, you know? 😉


