Ten Shades & Me

Welcome to our Fifty Shades-inspired, bondage-filled bedroom/playroom! Curious about what’s inside? Looking to get inspired for your own bedroom or sex room? Come take a look at our very own slice of bondage paradise, proudly constructed, decorated and designed by yours truly.

Inspired by Fifty Shades’ “Red Room Of Pain”, we wanted to give our bedroom a comical nickname that is a variation on a theme, that also serves as an ode to what BDSM truly is – hence, it is our Magnolia Room of Sensation! The LEDs behind the headboard are fully adjustable and can be colour changed to suit our mood, and a Google mini speaker on the shelf provides music, whether it’s our playtime playlist or soothing piano music for sleep!

Please be aware that this is a marital bedroom and a playroom, and so as such it is not as “heavy” on BDSM equipment as what a typical dungeon might be. With that said, we sincerely hope that our storage solutions and personal touches will inspire you!

A bed with black and white floral bedding and pink LED lighting behind the headboard
A Fifty Shades Of Grey bag containing soft cuffs, blindfold and a finger vibrator
Drawer containing blindfolds and cuffs
A drawer containing sensation play toys for BDSM
A drawer full of insertable sex toys
Screwless door hooks on a door
Afloggers and a riding crop on the back of a wardrobe door
black and white dresser area
Floggers and a paddle hang on the back of a wardrobe door
A backflow incense burner in action
An ordinary looking black and white monchrome bedroom
A view inside a black and white bedroom
A gothic crystal tealight holder
A silver chrome heart ornament next to Fifty Shades Of Grey playing cards
"The Protector" figurine by Anne Stokes
A certify signed by photo of Dave Grohl in a black frame
Fifty Shades themed wall art in a black frame
An aromatherapy diffuser with massage oil next to it
a black bed with bondage cuffs by the headboard

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