Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person?

With Master Levi being my first and longstanding Dominant, I can only really call on my physical and romantic connection with him for experience. I have had other, online interactions as well, but Master is my primary Dominant.

In my life, I am physically committed to one. However, mentally and emotionally, I have (and have had) close involvements with one others. That could change in the future and I could be physically involved with others too, it just hasn’t happened yet.

With Master Levi, my submission is full, deep and primal. I have had 16 years of knowing Master, 10 of which have seen us living together and trying new kinks and dynamics in that time. Master has been here to physically guide me and care for me and make sure that I’m falling all of his rules – from not opening jar lids on my own, to keeping my journal up to date regularly and making sure that I have my bracelet on. I don’t see me not having more than one Dom in my life – I don’t think Master would have any objection at all with sharing me, physically, with a Dom friend, it’s just that for one reason or another, it hasn’t happened yet.

When it comes to women, I cannot comment on my relationships with women as I have never submitted to a woman. Personally, I think it’s highly unlikely to happen, and that is mostly because around women, I prefer to take a leading role. Having been a Mommy Domme for a short while, I have a natural caring instinct and a desire to lead and protect women. Even if I am heteroflexible in nature, I could not see myself in a submissive position to other women. That’s not to say it couldn’t or wouldn’t happen though, because you can never say never for sure…

That’s it from me for this post. How does your submission change between your relationships? Share your thoughts in the comments or read more of my 30 Days of Submission posts!

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Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

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