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Are you looking to liven up your love life but aren’t sure where to begin? Relax! Here are our top six sex room essentials that we use in our bedroom – a sexy starter pack from Ten Shades & Me!
1. Pjur Woman Nude Water-Based Lubricant
Of course any lubricant is good, but we were sent our bottle of Pjur Woman Nude for review and we’ve used it ever since! A little goes a long way and I’ve had absolutely no issues with yeast infections, thanks to this wonderfully silky, designed-for-women, glycerin-free formula.
2. Bondage Boutique Bound To Please Under The Mattress Restraint Set
Our bed is not just ai bed, oh no – is a bed with a bondage system attached! The straps lie between the box frame and the mattress, so we can flip the straps up and tie one another to the bed at a moment’s notice! Do you want a fun, secure bondage system that you can easily hide under your bedding? Then you know what to do.
3. Bondage Boutique Heart Blindfold and Cuff Set
I love the adorable metallic hearts on this set – it makes me think of all of the mischief of Ms Harley Quinn! Fur lined with comfortable cuffs and an adjustable strap, this gorgeous set is both comfortable and stylish. – perfect for spicing up date night!
4. Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator
What would play time be without an orgasm or three? With this rechargeable mini wand, we have all of the flexibility of playtime – without any of the wires of a plug-in magic wand! Whether you use it for massage or for casting spells on your lover’s crotch, you need a wand in your basket!
5. Lovehoney So Fresh Foaming Body & Toy Cleanser
All good things must come to an end, and when it does, we love this gentle foaming body and toy cleanser. Apply a little to your toy (or person), wipe down with a soft microfiber cloth, and you’re done. Sure some bigger messes might still need a wash or shower afterwards, but for the small and immediate messes, this foaming cleanser can leave you plenty fresh for those post-coital cuddles – or round two, if you prefer!
And for the adventurous…
6. Lovehoney Booty Nights Silicone Butt Plug Set
Curious about the road less travelled? Let us introduce you to these colourful butt plugs. Made from super-smooth silicone, they slide in easily with a flexible T-bar for a plug that is both exciting and comfortable to wear. Graded sizing also means you can gently stretch your muscles, ready for your next step in your anal adventures.

