My Top Six Sexy Essentials

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Getting into BDSM play can be a very fun and rewarding experience. Before you get started though, here are six items that I recommend often and that you might want to consider purchasing before you start.

1. Durex Play Feel Lube

I love Durex lubricants, and the only reason I suggest this one over my other lube love is because you don't always want you sex sessions to smell like cherries! This lubricant is frangrance-free, long-lasting and water-based. The bottle size is perfect for travel too, making it great for wild nights away.

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2. Lovehoney So Fresh Foaming Body and Toy Cleanser

This product is fairly new in the Lovehoney range but I am all about it. I love that it can be used for both you and your toys! It's become a staple in my bedroom with some soft microfibre body cloths that can be popped in the wash after use. There's no need for water either which makes it perfect for a quick clean-up, the scent is a light, lemongrass

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3. Mates SKYN Elite Non-Latex Condoms (10 pack)

Sex is not the time you want to find out that your lover has a latex allergy. Not only will these condoms (hopefully!) prevent any unexpected surprises, they also deliver close-to-skin experience too, so you'll barely notice them there! Whether you're using them on yourself or a toy, wrap up and rock on.

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4. Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator

Whether used to deliver some sexy sensations or just a deep and satisfying massage, this wand fits perfectly in the palm of your hand with no frustrating cables to manage. Delivering 7 different patterns in 10 intensity levels and available in five different colours, you'll be sure to find the ooh for you!

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5. Lovehoney Bondage Essentials Kit

Exploring kink and BDSM can be very fun, but if you're just getting started, sometimes it's better to start off small. With this great bondage basics kit from Lovehoney you can dip your toes into spicier waters and enjoy a night of sexy games and naughty fun without having spent too much if you then decide it's not for you.

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6. Ouch! Bondage Safety Scissors

Safe sex requires condoms but what does safe bondage require? Safety scissors! These round-ended scissors are exactly the same as paramedics use to cut through clothes and bandages, but with a sexy black finish so they won't look so out of place in your bondage drawer!

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